You just found out your partner is pregnant, and it was unplanned. What role can you play in making this the most positive experience for both of you?
First, ensure your partner receives the initial pregnancy services and support she needs to confirm her pregnancy. Visit The Hope Bridge Pregnancy Resource Center together for no-cost pregnancy testing and an ultrasound if her test result is positive.
This appointment can clarify your situation and help you both evaluate your options.
Additionally, your actions can make all the difference during this emotional time. Here are three ways you can encourage and help your partner.
1. Show Your Support
- From the moment she suspects she might be pregnant, assure her you are in this together. You both may feel overwhelmed, but let her know you will be with her each step of the way.
- Researching helpful organizations will help her get the information she needs. In addition to The Hope Bridge PRC, where she can find pregnancy services and material assistance, she could connect with organizations to assist with housing, medical insurance, or transportation.
- Go with her to her pregnancy confirmation appointment. Assure her that you will stand beside her no matter the results.
- Be extra supportive and patient if she is struggling with early pregnancy symptoms. Bringing her crackers and fruit can help ease her nausea.
2. Learn Alongside Her
- Read about all of your pregnancy options together and research each one.
- Learn about the different stages of pregnancy and what your partner can expect if she continues her pregnancy.
- If you both decide to parent, research community support and attend parenting classes that welcome both partners.
3. Be Open and Honest
- Be open and honest with your partner about your thoughts and feelings. It’s healthy for your relationship that you both make this decision together.
- Listen to your partner’s thoughts and feelings as well.
- While the choice is ultimately hers as the pregnant woman, it’s important to communicate because the decision impacts you, too.
Visit The Hope Bridge PRC for Support
At The Hope Bridge PRC, we care about you.
From free pregnancy testing and ultrasounds to options information to quality parenting classes, our team is here to provide the support and care you need.
Contact us to ask questions or schedule your appointment as a couple today.