Having a close friend experience an unexpected pregnancy is not easy. You may be wondering what to do and how to respond, or maybe you’re fearful that you will say the wrong thing. Being there for your friend and listening to her needs right now is one of the best ways to support her.
At The Hope Bridge Pregnancy Resource Center, we are a resource for your friend facing an unexpected pregnancy with the free pregnancy services and information she needs to make a decision.
Go in Without Expectations
It’s easy to let your emotions get the best of you as you navigate this time with a friend. Do your best to control your feelings and be there for your friend when she needs you.
Your friend may react differently than you expected her to, and that’s ok. Drop all expectations of your friend at the door. She needs your unconditional support right now.
Do Your Best to Listen
Listening is key to extending your support to your friend. Be intentional about not responding immediately after she shares something unless she asks you a question.
Your friend will most likely want to talk and confide in you. The timing could be different, and she may need space in the beginning as she navigates her big emotions. Simply share that you are there for her when she wants to talk.
If you haven’t heard from your friend in a long time, simply check in on her or drop off her favorite meal or drink. These sweet and small gestures will show that you truly care about her.
Encourage Your Friend to Get Support
We are here to support your friend as she decides the best options for her. It’s essential for her to take advantage of free pregnancy testing and a potential ultrasound to safeguard her health and gain clarity about her available options.
She can schedule a free and confidential appointment with us today to learn more. We are here to talk in a safe and non-judgmental space so she can make an informed decision.